Acceptance

Bonds forged over differences between the two people tend to be stronger than bonds formed through things you have in common with each other...perhaps these differences provide some necessary conflict that keeps communication alive by helping to point each of us in directions that you may not otherwise decide to go alone...some of which are directions in which you often find out you need to go...

True love is neither physical, nor romantic.... True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be....happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have...but how far does that go?

i merely wanted to guarantee our places...and i got back a whole lot more than what i asked for...am i being overly sensitive? or is it just a habit of yours to be pissed at me...seems like i have more reasons to hate being myself...am i not accepting you as who you are?? does everything i do just has to be amplified...

Genuine

honesty is always the best policy...honesty is telling the truth even if u think the other person's feelings may be hurt...when u tell a lie, even a little white lie, u are not expressing who u really are and in fact, giving a false impression of who u are...false impressions can hurt any type of relationship...thus to keep e relationship healthy, we need to always tell the truth and forego telling the white lies altogether...

being honest in a relationship also means the need to be tactful when being honest...can't always say exactly what may be on your mind at any given moment...make sure u think before u speak...say things honestly yet nicely...i'll just accept whoever u are even if it is difficult to have compassionate honesty imbedded...honesty in relationships are always a good idea but if we can be nice while being honest, thats the best outcome so that we don't harm the relationship by being mean...compassionate honesty is the best way to achieve honesty in relationships...

this also means that not keeping things hidden from loved ones...when u hide things from one another, a dishonest relationship is created...worst of all it can hurt the relationship, especially when the other person finds out about the things hidden...hiding things in relationships is just another way of being dishonest...

hopefully this will help our relationship progress and become better where we both can learn and grow together..the more compassionately honest we are the more trust that will be built on both sides of the relationship...Trust in a relationship comes from being honest and compassionate not overlooking faults but being tolerant...

Family

instinctual reactions tear apart relationships ...thats for sure...it merely brings up a host of hurt feelings to everyone around it...emotional costs are great....but things don't always proceed according to plans and expectations...people do not always act the way you wish them to act...an inability to control external influences and conditions does not mean u can't control your attitude and reactions...it just does not make any sense to me when u of allow circumstances and people to pull your strings and affect your mind and feelings...you can choose not to let what people say and do affect your moods by maintaining an inner attitude of emotional and mental detachment, and refuse to allow every minor event play with your feelings and evoke anger...

her anger is caused by her inability to mentally cope with situations that happen here.... Blaming others or yourself and remaining angry may appear the easy way out...but that does not solve the underlying issues??

what is the source of all these? up till now it still puzzles me....i'm here because of u, but u are not here because of me...u came here with the intention to start a business which u wanted to do for yourself, and now u have accomplished that already! if u r here because u presumed sis will be here, face it that she is no longer here! she's married having her own life..so if u r that unhappy why are u still here? how much patience and understanding do u need from your son while u battle the demons inside? i dun wish to blow my head off one day to make u wake up and do what makes u happy...is the satisfaction from the business worth all these troubles? if i am the reason u r still here, i will only tell u to leave this place because all i see and hear is not what i want for my mother...perhaps its time u let me go explore the world on my own...let me have my own life...

all family members want for one another is to be safe..happy..healthy...i will fulfill my duties as a son not because i am obliged to...because i want to...as a family we need to work as a unit, so please heed my advices if necessary, i can't do this alone...

Time

FUTURE: I never think too much of the future...It comes soon enough for us to uncover...no one knows what will happen...but the least we could do is to have a plan...although things dont always go according to plans, but at least there is a plan to conform towards rather than not having anything to adapt to at all..

PAST: Never forget or history will repeat itself over and over..doesn't imply that we must constantly bring up issues of the past, but rather have it with us as a reminder when things start to go wrong...the last thing i would hope for is to go through another episode again..it sickens me today to feel like things were somewhat like before..i'm so glad the day is over....

PRESENT: A true soulmate is someone who understands your past, believes in your future and accepts you today, just the way you are...nothing matters most than being able to embrace the present with gratitude...

"The clock is running. Make the most of today. Time waits for no man. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present."

RESENTMENT

I HATE THIS FEELING..UTTERLY HATE IT....It is starting to feel like the past again....what difference is there if we don't sort things out together?!?!? Am i wrong in my reactions?! SPURRING ANGER WILL ONLY RESULT IN AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOUR!!!!!

used to think i ask too many questions, thus i shall not ask henceforth...used to not be able to accept apologies, thus now i swallow any other emotions to forgive...used to pursue matters to every detail, thus i learn not to let my rationality get in the way of things...all these for what? the answer is simple..you..all the negative emotions can only be stirred up by u alone cause u are so close to me...close enough for me to reveal myself....just liked u said, the ones who stick with u through rough times are the ones closest to u...all i want is HARMONY between us...

Carefree

when the world and everything around starts spinning crazily and control becomes even more impossible than it usually is, the stress can eat you alive...Like right now for many who have been consumed by this crazy world with the never ending bad experiences and issues around us....

one is way to hide until the storm passes...it is always easy to hide and hibernate away during the cold strong storms...Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain..

what can't we control? many other things..people and nature...that means pretty much everything but ourselves... and there is plenty enough going on with ourselves so no need to make yourself extra stressed by trying to control the uncontrollable....

when one starts to care what people think about all the time, then it will get me wondering what everyone is thinking all the time... Breaking free from caring what people think is a step towards success...thats how i need to be in order to be carefree...